THIS IS FOR THOSE WHO FEAR TO BE HURT IN LOVE

It lisilofichika that there were many who feared hurt in love. Kuumizwa this be in several forms such as love someone then the person concerned should show better to you, or be in a relationship with someone and then that person after some time he quit and went away with another partner.

In view of this fear people will be hurt in any of the two types; those who are afraid to even have a boyfriend because of fear of injury, and those who are in love but do not believe they are safe, their lives are concerned that any time partner might leave 'solemba'.

This article examines how to 'deal' with the fear of hurt in love.

The reasons for fearing:

Several factors may contribute to a person in fear of injury will. Here are some:

Someone had already left 'solemba' partner before

Someone has witnessed a friend, relative or neighbor was left 'solemba'

Jealousy opitiliza to the relevant partner would be the underlying causes of jealousy.

Living by other people's expectations: That person is in love but as he reports his crazy love for others. So he feared 'name' if his litachafuliwa appear kamuacha partner.

For the others will be left in weakness means unsuccessful in life.

Trusting greatly beloved, especially financial dependence on:

This occurs when a person is believed to live according to his belief that his partner is 'everything' in life. There are those who depend on their partners for everything related to their education (support materials, write reports, etc.), they are depended on their partners for everything related to their use -food, clothing, etc.

Things primary focus on overcoming fear of injury

1.Uoga the arbitration problem: Fearing that the left or Be Likable as you expect loved does not have a solution to your fears. Take time to identify the source of your fear is what exactly. Take time to get to know the partner you want to build a relationship with him, or who are already there with him. Downgrade enough if you believe that you are part of the solution to the problem. So realize how your character, your expectations and your understanding about relationships which can help improve relations so do not be hurt.

2.Binadamu usually are selfish: By nature humans see his interest, and he would like to benefit more and more. So look at how you conduct relations because if you really give your partner wants to see more and more benefits. Are there things he yoyalalamikia you and you can fix them? Can you improve the communication between you to know the feeling of you? Are you talking about the things you fear and dislike?

3.Chunguza your expectations related to relationships: If we are not careful about what we anticipate in the relationships we might find ourselves misled our partners, because our expectations are probably beyond the capacity of our partners or possibly contradictory by leaps and expectations of our partners. Example urgency of wanting your partner to build, pay place, akununulie several properties etc. may mislead. Take the time to learn the realities of your partner, and the principle of life is trust.

4.Ishi you if you: Usiige lives of people and do not want to present himself before the people that you are the best from the kind of partner you're with, or because 'you are enjoy' life. Your will is for you. As you begin to incorporate the perspectives of others or want to 'sell shape' others your will, you create a debt that the result is you find living in fear of abandonment and got, as you kutakuumiza more strands to be kutakuaibisha front of others.